OK all input is well received and there is no puking going on.

I'm not upset that the rig is slow, in fact I don't really think it is all that slow, based on what I'd read online before I bought it I thought it'd be a real pig but it's got some serious get up and go, especially without a passenger. Might it help that the dealer rejetted it for me? Or don't they all do that? Anyway I don't have buyer's remorse at all the Ural thrills the heck out of me and my kids fight over who gets to ride with me, what more could I ask for?
After reviewing my options I'm finding some more ways to get around without hitting the highway and there are more paths open to me than I originally expected. While there are some 45mph speed limit roads I need to traverse the reality is I don't spend much time on them. Today I managed to get out for a bit and actually threaded through the back streets and rode to church and back, which is clear across town

Had to hit 45mph for a short stretch to keep from getting run down but otherwise it weren't bad at all oh and the trip took me about three times longer than it should but it was all fun.
My biggest problem at this point is getting my sidecar'ing skills down. With each ride the rig feels less twitchy as I learn how to compensate unconciously for the yaw and not be so jerky on the throttle. The truth is I'm not ready yet for 60mph anyway but I am progressing. 30mph which previously seemed scary fast now seems reasonable and now 40-45mph is scary
It's so much fun being a newbie and asking stupid questions, I appreciate you guys taking the time to keep me in line.